You can’t know what resolution you need until you know what your objective is. While resolutions are about “shoulds,” dreaming is about hope. Begin your resolutions in February. During January, dream.
And that is why I believe we’ve got it backwards when it comes to making New Year’s resolutions. Instead of starting January trying to “fix” all the wrongs, let’s take some time to figure out what our objectives really are.
https://hbrascend.org/topics/instead-of-making-resolutions-dream/